Wednesday, February 18, 2009

weighing in on mr. brown

first off, i would just like to say that i don't listen to r&b. i know who chris brown and rihanna are. ive heard their music and seen their videos. im not a fan of either artist.

but i want to add my two cents to the already two dollars ive been hearing about what went down.

i was reading about some of the comments of other celebs and the consensus seems to be the same: "i cant comment because i dont know what happened. but they're in our prayers"...blah, blah, blah.

i mean really, what can you say? the only two people that know what happened--and why--are chris and rihanna.

and now chris is saying he's sorry and saddened by what happened and he's seeking counseling from his mother, pastor, friends and family.

i can tell you what he needs to do, but let me say this first:

YOU. DO. NOT. HIT. A FEMALE. EVER.

no matter if there's a history of family violence and you vowed to never treat someone else like that.

no matter if she took your phone and threw it out the window of a moving car.

no matter if she got so pissed at you, she took all your belongings and chucked them out a window. or had a bonfire out in the backyard. or had a yard sale and sold everything for a dollar.

no matter if he--or she--was caught cheating and you decided to confront them.

YOU. DO. NOT. HIT. A FEMALE. EVER.

mr brown doesnt need to have a little convo with his mother or other loved ones. family and friends are too close to the sitch, too close to the abuser, and any advice/suggestions are going to be based on personal knowledge.

a little confessional time with the pastor may help, but The Big Dawg isnt the only person hes going to need to ask for forgiveness.

mr brown needs to get some professional help. thats what his mother, his friends, his family members and his pastor need to tell him. he obviously has some issues he needs to work out.

that was more like a buck fifty than two cents, but still...

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